How Do We Let Go Of Trapped Emotions
Eckhart Tolle in the book, "The New Earth", says, "The remnants of pain left behind by every strong negative emotion that is not fully faced, accepted, and then let go of join together to form an energy field that lives in the very cells of your body." Similarly, Gary Craig the creator of EFT states that, "Most of our emotional and physical problems are caused by unresolved specific events."
It does not seem possible that events that occurred years ago can affect us, yet that is exactly what happens. I have seen in my practice that without even being aware of an anniversary of an event, a person suddenly finds themselves feeling sad or angry - or an old injury will return for no apparent reason. This occurs because the event is still rooted in our bodies.
We try everything we know to maintain a positive attitude, to have peace in our lives and to have health and prosperity; but too often we feel unsuccessful in our attempts. We blame ourselves for not reaching our goals and begin to believe we are guilty of self-sabotage and are our own worst enemy.
By using the reversal, which is the first step in the EFT technique, we are addressing the negative event, emotion or pain - in essence we are 'letting go'. However, the reversal by itself generally does not relieve the problem. It is necessary to also tap on meridians identified by ancient Chinese in acupuncture, while saying a reminder phrase. The phrase keeps us focused and essentially tells our body what to heal.
Yet, there are still times when EFT does not seem to provide the desired results. When EFT does not work, it is necessary to reassess our concept of the reversal. Is there something more to the event; a new aspect that wasn't originally identified - or is the stated emotion correct; for example, is the emotion 'nervous' or is it 'anxious' or is it 'fear' - or is there something deeper involved? In all cases more work and perseverance is needed to uncover the correct event or emotion or pain until the results are positive.
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Do You Want To Let Go Of Illness and Sadness?
The following is condensed from Gary Craig's Newsletter. Who wouldn't 'let go' of illness. Actually, there are people who receive some relief from EFT, but then stop using the technique before they are fully well. There are some very good reasons for this:
- We know what to expect from our illness. We know what brings comfort or safety. Not knowing what will happen if our life changes - even if it changes for the better - can be fearful.
- With a long-term serious disease a person is certain of what they can and can't do. They are certain of how people will treat them. They are certain of how most of each day will continue.
- Illness may provide a sense of meaning or purpose; didn't the saints suffer and weren't they closer to God for their suffering. Isn't it possible that each of us has a bit of the belief that we will be better people because we suffer.
- Who are we that we deserve good health, happiness and abundance when there is so much suffering around us, how can we possibly deserve even as much as we already have.
Some people fear that they have to re-experience a trauma while doing EFT and they may not want to remember anything about the event - even if it meant removing their pain. That is why EFT is designed to work without pain; it works without a need to re-live an event - and it works even if the person does not want to speak of the event.
So how can we use EFT to handle our reasons for not being ready to let go ?
There are various EFT protocols to help you when you are stuck. You can remove the feelings of non-deserving, the feelings of fear of the unknown. There is the movie technique, where you start to tell your story, but stop to use EFT before you feel anxiety. There is more complex technique where you do not verbalize an emotion or event, thus avoiding the anxious feelings. A steadfastness of practice will eventually uncover a buried memory.
There are many EFT techniques that can help. I can work with you on these techniques. You can let go of anger and sadness and, hopefully release pain
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I have some great success using EFT.. But then again I've had the least positive result, in some cases no result, with people who do not have an emotion regarding their issue.
I've worked with a few people who simply did not have any intensity when they talk about their issue or their desire for improvement. And, in a few cases I've worked with people who were able to determine a measure of intensity, but were unable to define what the intensity meant. They had no anger, sadness, frustration or any other emotion, yet they came up with a number between 1 and 10 for the intensity. It is very strange.
I've been searching for a way to make a difference in these cases. I'm hoping that by sharing this information, those of you who did not receive help, or had only minimal relief, might try this technique for yourself - or hopefully you will call me and we can work together using the following idea to improve the issue.
The underlying idea behind EFT is that a person be "tuned in" to their problem while addressing an imbalanced or disrupted energy system. "Tuning in" does not require emotional intensity. It only requires awareness. So try this....
Ask yourself, "What memory would I rather not have?"
- You may be able to pick out a disagreeable memory, even though you may still have no intensity about that memory.
- Be very specific about the memory. Who was involved, what did they say, when did it happen.
- Use the full tapping procedure and the 9 gamut procedure.
- If you don't have your EFT 'cheat sheet', please email and I can send one to you.
- Dig up every aspect (emotion or feeling) you can find and then use your intuition to find even more.
- Do many rounds. This process may take 15 or 20 minutes to do it thoroughly.
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